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Ivar drew his first picture of me. I was so touched. And equally excited by my uncanny resemblance with Mike Wazowski.

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Daddy: Ivar, I want you to be good and to follow Jesus. Other than that, you can do whatever you want with your life.
Ivar: Okay. I don't want to follow Jesus, I just want to play.

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Rory had to run into Menards and I stayed in the car with the kids. To help keep everyone occupied I conducted a little interview.
Becca: What is your favorite thing to eat?
Elsie: Lunch!
Ivar: Hot Dogs!

Becca: What is your favorite place to be?
Elsie: Buttya!
Ivar: The haircut place!

Becca: What is your favorite song?
Elsie: Jesus!
Ivar: doodoodoodoo (Thomas theme song)

Becca: What is your favorite store?
Elsie: ABC Toy Store
Ivar: The new YMCA!

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Elsie: Oh, new socks?
Becca: Yes, they are new.
Elsie: Oh! From Target?
And later that day we were in Macy's and she got all caught up in the purse section, trying them on, adoring herself in the mirror. Houston, we have a girl.

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I taped a little rectangle of paper towel onto Elsie cupie doll when she told me her baby was poopie. It was a pretty awesome little diaper and I showed Ivar. He replied, "Mom. That baby is plastic."





helping hands


There is a long list of projects that need to get done this fall, and thankfully we have willing hearts to help us get it all done. Sometimes we pay our help in pumpkins. Sometimes neighbors stop by to entertain our kids with a new puppy. Sometimes friends graciously let us use their wood chopper. We are grateful and couldn't do it all without all the help.

(Speaking of helping hands... Any photographers out there know why my pictures are turning out so bright? I am not editing them at all...but they seem hot even though I'm in automatic, as usual)

long live the queen


These lovely pictures are all taken from my second hive. That hive is thriving and the bees look great. They are making a lot of honey and look strong going into the winter ahead. I love the look of capped honey showing in the picture just above. That's what they'll live on during the winter months until the dandelions bloom in the springtime. 

The first hive isn't thriving. I've known this for weeks now, but haven't been sure what to do about it. I always see dead bees around the base, in disturbing numbers. In one of the first bee keeping books I read it recommended always starting your bee keeping experience with at least two hives so you have something to compare your hives against. I am so glad we did this, because towards the middle of August I could tell that the first hive wasn't keeping up with the second hive.

The trouble was that I didn't know what to do about it.

I kept telling myself that bees are resilient. They don't have keepers in the wild. Surely they would figure it out. I had read that if the queen was unwell or abandoned the hive, the other bees would build a new queen cell. But apparently that didn't happen. Adam, my bee keeping mentor came out the same day Mama J died, and confirmed what I already knew...my first hive had no queen. As we stood in the noisy cloud of bees surrounding the hive he told me that the bees swarming around and in and out of the hive were likely robbers from other area hives coming to get the honey.


I've taken the loss of this hive pretty personally. Adam assured me that it's really common. That it is not uncommon for a bee keeper to loose 1/3 of their hives in a year. He knew it would be sad, but assured me that next year he'd get me set up with splits from his own hives, queens that he grows and we'll be on our feet again. But I'm still so disappointed and feel so guilty about having lost an entire hive.

Adam did mention that if I had caught it soon enough, there usually is about a 10 day window to introduce a new queen (I thought this was done by the bees, but apparently a keeper can introduce a new queen as well) with hopes that the hive might resurrect.

The biggest lesson learned is simply that I still have so much more to learn. It is obvious to me that I need to be in some sort of bee keeping class, or honey bee school.

It's sad and disappointing. I'll study up this winter and be ready for another round next spring. In the meantime, I'll be building a silt fence around the second hive preparing it for winter.


a mess a minute


I found her with hair product all over her face and hands. I said, "little girl, you are a mess a minute."

She protested with frustration, "No! I'm Elsie!"

a florescent fall


I didn't change the coloring on any of these pictures it's just that this fall has been this spectacular. I told Rory that I wouldn't have thought neon colors were all that natural, but they totally are. You can see them everywhere lately. I took the kids on a country drive this morning and got a few of these pictures.

We spent the weekend in Wisconsin at our friends' cabin. It was a great weekend with a wood burning fire, hot apple cider, good food and conversation and snow on Saturday morning. We were so surprised! And it really was pretty. I never mind the snow at the beginning of the season. (Though I'm glad it's not the actual beginning of the season...)

But the kids got excited. Today they wanted to get the sled out and I was happy to pretend there was snow. And for the record, they did not want to go outside on this glorious day so I told them, "when you come out with your boots on, I will give you a peanut m&m." It worked and we played hard for an hour before nap time.

Bribery felt acceptable because it is the time of the year that you soak up every single lovely day.