family dinner

On Monday morning I got a text from my mom asking if I wanted to come for dinner because Aunt Annie and Aunt Louie would be at her house. I texted back a quick Yes! And she said that's she'd see if my cousin Kathy wanted to come so our babies could finally meet.

Then my mom asked Uncle Don if he wanted to come to see the babies, and he picked up Uncle Carl on the way (who, upon arrival, noticed my expired plates and changed my license plates on the spot!)

Well now we had a real party on our hands. So even my sister came after a full day of work and kindergarten round up!

 Everyone got to hold a baby for as longs as they wanted.

Mom got a few peony transplants from Aunt Annie's farm that Uncle Carl planted for her. 

What joy! I love family time so much and last night was a precious, unexpected, wonderful treat. All because my mom woke up and started inviting people to her house for dinner...

1,431 pictures by Ivar

Ivar found my faithful, red, digital camera last week. I had lost it for a year and then found it in my golf bag after the winter. There are years of my life when this little camera never left my side. I took nearly every picture for this blog with Little Red until I got my iphone. I love that camera, and now Ivar does too. I told him how to turn it on and take a picture last week and in the six days since he has taken 1,431 pictures! I know that for certain because I just downloaded every one of those pictures onto my laptop.

Have you ever heard of Week in the Life? It's a picture project that Ali Edwards encourages all of us to do. To capture the every day, the ordinary. To see the actual life happening around us. I love the idea of this project and have tried to accomplish it in the past, but it's a big undertaking. 

But Ivar did it for me! At age five, he captured the most honest, true slice of time that I can imagine. You have no idea how many pictures he took of my hiney loading and unloading the dishwasher. And all the different Elsie outfits he documented. He took pictures of his Cars and Planes and Legos from every single angle, up close, far away. He took pictures of our cats and chickens and it is quite obvious that he adores baby Hattie. 

I didn't let him bring his camera along on any outings, but now I can't wait to have him document our trips to Target, Sunday at church, ECFE and playdates. It's so fun to see life from his perspective. (And it should be mentioned that these are my favorites combed from the thousands...and I cropped them, which is a magic touch. But other than that, these are Ivar's pictures.) He's got some unique vantage points. Enjoy!

farm kids

Yesterday we spent the afternoon moving stuff from the garage out to the barn. Then our friends showed up to deliver the post hole digger that we purchased together, our first shared implement. We have fruit trees arriving this week so it was time to start digging. It was suppertime, but Rory needed me to help decide where the next trees should be planted. So I grabbed the box of graham crackers put the baby on my lap and drove out to the orchard to find Rory and the tractor.

It was as I was bouncing around in the pick up, driving through the field with the baby on my lap that I began to feel it. We are becoming quite the legit farm family.

and now a message from hattie...

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Hattie turned six months old yesterday! SIX MONTHS!

She is the queen of the exersaucer, proud to be upright. She loves standing on our laps and looking right into our eyes, making us smile. This week she started rice cereal and loves the stuff. She talks a constant babble and makes silly sounds that make us laugh. She spends most of her time watching Ivar and Elsie, and they spend most of their time watching her. She barrel rolls all around the living room and is showing signs that crawling will be her next big trick. She continues to be calm and chill, and very happy to be alive. Hattie Joy, our joy.

early spring at the grovestead

Everything is coming to life around here. The lilac buds are growing every day. Rory and Ivar got the onions planted and the tulips are coming up the fullest yet. I'm so excited to see them bloom!

The other sure sign of spring is my sudden need to purge, clean and get rid of all of our stuff. I went through our kitchen cabinets on Saturday, rearranged everything, wiped every surface and brought a big bag of food items that we apparently never eat to the church. Then I cooked all our random almost empty boxes of noodles and our expired (!!) brown rice and gave it to the chickens who were quite thrilled with my cleaning efforts.  I love springtime. There are so many possibilities ahead. One year ago we still had the old barn standing in our yard. It's amazing all that will get done in the next six months! Goats! A Mama Garden! More fruit trees! And we just got an email that our asparagus crowns will be delivered this week. Let the games begin!