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what a week

And here we are on Friday.

+What a week. What a week. What a week. Just want to acknowledge that I posted our announcement on Election Day as my own quiet way of adding a little happy into the crazy. And then while watching the results come in I decided to write the story of telling Rory about baby #4. My cousin recently posted a quote that said, "society radiates from the family out, not from the government down." A guy named Christopher Check said that, and though I have no idea who he is, I love those words and I believe it so much. I was sad at our voting choices to begin with, so here we are.

+Monday we bought a ram. Not a truck. A boy sheep. So sometime in May we should have little lambs on our farm. What a kick that will be! When the farmers delivered the ram, they brought shots to vaccinate our sheep, as well as the new ram. They had Rory give the shots and at one point, he was holding a sheep with the sheep sitting upright on it's hiney, as Rory held the head between his legs and lifted the front hoof to administer the shot between the correct layers of tissue. We caught eyes and he said, "I'm actually doing this right now." Sometimes the hobby farm learning curve is so steep we can only shake our heads and laugh about it later.

+Like Friday night when Rory was gone and I looked out to find the sheep in the garden. They had gotten out of their electric fence. This happens sometimes when we move the fence around and parts of the wire end up higher than we can tell, because the land slopes. Anyway, they were out and I had the kids. So the kids got to watch a show and I went out to unplug the fence, take part of it down, get some sheep treats, grab a long stick and gently guide them back to their pen. That's the short version. It actually took me about 40 minutes of trial and error to figure all of that out. But thankfully animals know the barn is their safety, and know to stay near. So they gave me many tries and eventually we all heaved a sigh of relief when they ran into their stall. Then all I had to do was reset the electric fence. Ha! But I did it. Add shepherdess to my list of hobbies.

+Tonight we painted the red room with a grey primer. And tomorrow we will paint over the primer with Benjamin Moore's Revere Pewter. Pinterest said it was the best grey, and I took Pinterest's word for it. The red was just never right. We knew that eight months ago when I painted it the second time, but it took a while to muster the chutzpah to get painting. And truth-be-told, neither of us have any real chutzpah this time around, but earlier this week I wrote on the calendar "painting begins!" and this morning I obediently began moving furniture and prepping the room. Sometimes you just have to do it for it to get done. I figured that out after eight months of not doing it.

+The kids and I have been doing a bird unit all month. We've learned about all sorts of birds, their calls and made bird feeders. We are genuine birders. We hung a feeder out the kitchen window and the kids have step stools to see who is eating at their feeder. So far we've had downy woodpeckers, black capped chickadees, song sparrows, gold finches, cardinals, robins and blue jays visit our feeder. It is so fun to watch them and even more fun to watch them with my enthusiastic kids. You can add bird-watching to my list of hobbies too.

+So there's the update. Life is good. I know the reason for the hope that I have. And the forecast is for another glorious fall weekend, right here in the near middle of November. Thank you, long-lasting fall!

baby #4

When I was 9 months pregnant with Hattie, I dropped Ivar and Elsie off at the first day of preschool. I went back to my car and watched them play together in the sand area. Right then I texted Rory that Baby #3 was going to need a Baby #4 so they would have each other like Ivar and Elsie do.

And so here we are, pregnant with our forth child. This baby was wanted, prayed for and planned. And we are so thrilled. The day we found out I was pregnant I decided to take the test on a whim. Rory had already left for the day and I had a Dollar Tree test and was eager to see. But I was shocked when the second line appeared. As luck would have it, that day my sister-in-law Lisa was coming over to gather grapevine from our grove to make wreaths. So I asked her if she would watch the kids for two hours so I could meet Rory for coffee. He had just been in Seattle for the weekend and we had hardly caught up.

I picked Rory up at Caribou and told him I wanted to go to the river. So we went to a favorite patio restaurant that overlooks the water, and Rory ordered us Fried Pickles and Cherry Cokes. How very fitting.

He had so much to tell me from his trip to Seattle. He had stuff to tell me about an exciting meeting at church. He had a lot to fill me in on with his business. It was a glorious day and we were so happy to be together.

After we left the restaurant we walked across a bridge and I told Rory about how that morning Ivar and I had been out in the barn talking about all we have to be thankful for. Ivar and I had thanked God for the goats and sheep, cats and chickens, the garden and orchard, for our barn and field. And I told Rory, "And you and me...we have our three awesome kids to be thankful for, and now a forth on the way." And I whipped out the pregnancy test out of my pocket and held it in front of him.

Rory's face lit up with an immediate joy that I won't forget. He was instantly happy. And we hugged and laughed and cried and thanked God. Because we are so, so grateful.

So baby #4 is on its way. I'm feeling fine and have a few hours a day of nausea, but it's mild.

And for the record, we feel good with four. With my other pregnancies I knew I wasn't done. But this one I have a peaceful feeling that this will be my last pregnancy. Of course I could be wrong, but I like four. We will fit in a mini van. Everyone has a partner. Groves Party of 6. I'm a fan.

ivar's reading lesson



Ivar turned six last week and chose to celebrate with family at the Mall of America! We ate at the food court, opened presents, ate cake, went to Lego Land and Ivar shared his latest reading lesson. I'll be back tomorrow with more details on the reading lesson. :)











We are thrilled! Hattie and baby #4 will be 20 months apart, just like Ivar and Elsie are 20 months apart. We prayed and planned for this baby and are overjoyed to be adding another life to our family!

lovely fall

These days are incredible. I can't get over this fall weather. Maybe it's always like this, but for some reason this year I am just so grateful for every glorious day. And there have been so many! We have been jumping in leaves all week, raking paths for toy combines and soaking up the sun. Hattie especially likes the sound and feel of crawling through the leaves. She's quite different from her brother! 

pumpkin carving

Pumpkin carving with kids basically boils down to pumpkin carving with kids around. :) I scooped all the goop and Rory did the carving. But the enthusiasm was high and the kids were still so proud of their pumpkins!