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the tire swing


Since the day we moved in, I have wanted a tire swing in one of our oak trees. Not because I'm that into tire swinging, but because I think oak trees and tire swings go together like tomatoes and basil. 


I found this tutorial online and got to work. Lucky for us our grove was stuffed full of old tires that I had removed earlier this summer and placed in the pole barn. So I had my pick of tires to choose from. I spent a lot of time scrubbing it clean, and then drilled three holes in the bottom so that it will drain the water when it rains.


Ivar liked it and didn't need a push. Being up that high and gently spinning was fun enough for him. 

And then we gave a ride to Cookie Mama and Cookie Baby. 


And when we're not playing on it, I think it makes for the prettiest yard decoration. This was early this morning with a humid fog on the ground. So lovely.

trimming a tree near you...


Yesterday my dad showed up and started trimming our trees again. If you've been wondering what he's been up to in his retirement it can be summed up in two words: travel and trees. Lots of both. He got this new extended saw thingy that lets him reach branches way up high. And since this purchase, many of our trees have gotten a much needed haircut.

It's a perfect Paul Harrington project. He often mentioned that ministry was so ongoing...you rarely got to see a project finished because you were dealing with human lives. But tree trimming...now there is a project that shows immediate results.

Yesterday he seemed downright chipper to be out in the muggy heat. He kept saying things like, "I grew up in this. It's good for my pores. This is good exercise, think of the money I'm saving by not joining Lifetime."

Ivar is a quote a day


Ivar: Is me three?

Me: No, you're still two. But you'll be three in November.

Ivar: Mmmm. It takes a long time to get three.

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I told Ivar I was going upstairs to put on my workout clothes. When I came back down he excitedly showed me, "I got your exershoes!"

***

Me: Ivar, why were you so sad in the kitchen just now. Why were you so upset? Do you think you're kind of tired?

Ivar: Probably a lot.


apples and stars


Saturday was a day that all day long kept me keenly aware of our new lifestyle. We were outside in the morning, picking apples and playing in the rock box. Then I spent a good chunk of time out in the heat, scrubbing chicken poo off of our driveway. If you know anything of chicken poo, you know the stuff is cement. And our driveway was becoming an embarrassment because our chickens hang out under our cars, causing a lot of mess. So I spent the early afternoon hosing down our driveway and using a scrub brush on my hands and knees to clean it all off. It was gross.

But that night Rory started to make an apple pie with the apples from our tree. It was close to ten by the time the pie was done, so we took it outside and ate it on our camping chairs on our fantastically clean driveway. It was windy and there were no bugs.

We sat there for a long, long time looking up at the stars. We saw six satellites and three shooting stars. And we talked about how crazy it is that we don't look at the stars more often. I noted how I've watched more Dancing with the Stars in the past year than I have the actual stars in the sky. But star gazing leads to good, deep conversation. I think that was God's intent. Looking up at night leads you to the big questions, the greatness of God, brings you to a place of awe and wonder and gently puts you back in your little mortal place. We covered a lot of ground while we slouched in our chairs: space stations and moon patterns, life on other planets, gps systems, and parenting.

So here's an idea for one of these last evenings of summer: get outside and look up. And if you can bring a warm piece of apple pie with you, even better. And if you happen to have a patch of yard that isn't covered in chicken poo, better still.

"Mama, I gotta work a job."


Rory built the kids a rock box that we painted red and then filled with little stones. We saw a rock box at the county fair and thought it was a good idea. So far the perks of a rock box versus a sand box is that sand doesn't get in hair, eyes or bottoms, and no animals use it as their litter box as they pass through our yard. And the greatest perk is that it serves as the third parent. Ivar is out there all the time.

He'll tell me the game plan when we get home from errands or when he gets up in the morning. He'll say, "Mama, I gotta work a job. With the bulldozer."

Today I heard him downstairs say quietly to himself, "I gotta go work a job. Bye." And then listened to the kitchen door close and watched him, from an upstairs window, walk out to the rock box.

At least he has a strong work ethic.