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california recap: WITH WORDS!

As you can tell from the pictures, this was a full vacation. And honestly, I've just been regrouping since we got back. I was working on this post, and accidentally hit publish when the post was just pictures and after realizing I had done so, I thought, "I'm just going to go to bed and write my commentary later." And so here I am, two days later, doing just that.

The weekend was splendid. I had in my head that we would just go and hang out at John and Shannon's house, and lay on our bellies reading books and playing with cars with their 1 and 2 year old. But they had a fabulous itinerary for us, and every day was perfectly played out.

We arrived on my birthday around five, and drove to a fantastic neighborhood (San Francisco is basically all fantastic neighborhoods) for my birthday dinner. We went to a Roman restaurant that blew our minds. And puffed out our bellies. I actually had gotten ill on the plane ride, so I was more in to the bread basket and divine olive oil. But Rory had quail and I think John had rabbit and Shannon had something that was so good, her plate was empty before I could really get a good look. :)
After supper, we drove to a park area right under the Golden Gate bridge. Shannon had made individual molten chocolate cakes for us with a hot raspberry sauce (she microwaved it at a gas station in the hot-dog microwave, commenting that was the first time she had ever used one of those microwaves for personal use. ha.)

We went on lots of walks...this is the trail behind their house...it is glorious and feels so secluded. Very Lord-of-the-ringsy.

On Friday we took a tour of a vineyard in Napa Valley. It was a stunning day and I learned so much about wine! Rory and I don't really drink so for us it was just a bit more informative as we practiced our wafting and finding the legs on our wine.
We brought our new SLR camera on this trip and tried all sorts of depth of field pictures. Actually, that was Rory. I was just trying to get used to not focusing with my little index finger and using the actual lens! Crazy how digital my world has become.


They brought out local cheeses to pair with the wine. Rory and I do eat cheese. Let that be known. We love our cheese.
John and Shannon are friends who have made serious intentional decisions about what they eat and have been telling us about a homemade chicken broth that they make a few times a month. So John gave us a demonstration and let me tell you, it was AMAZING. And not all that complicated. It's amazing to think our grandma's all did this all the time because this is how cooking used to operate. Later John made this broth and veggies and chicken into chicken pot pies. Salivating as a type. They were to die for.
On Saturday we were presented five choices for a Rory-Becca day. They all sounded fabulous (including a cheese factory tour!) But we chose Stinson Beach and the Redwood Forest. While on the beach we had fish tacos with a homemade salsa that we still haven't stopped talking about.
This was the meadow leading to the big redwoods. I love that guy walking that path. I'd follow him anywhere.
This is me, casually standing with my knee slightly bent. I'm getting loopy-punchy as I type this. Sorry.

On Sunday we celebrated baby Kate's first birthday! We were actually with John and Shannon one year earlier when Shannon went into labor right in front of our eyes. This is maybe my favorite story of all time to tell, but way better in person. Ask me sometime. We went to the park in Farifax where they live and this guy was making bubbles like this one. I thought many times that my mom should really get into this. It combines bubbles, spell-bound-joy-filled kiddos and the outdoors. She'd be a great Bubble lady.
Kate's party was fabulous...complete with lots of frosting and John Thomas (2 year old big brother) yelling, "look at Kate dive into that cupcake" bazillions of times. Kate's favorite gift? A card that played winnie the pooh when she opened it. Keep that in mind for your next 1 year old birthday. Simple, inexpensive and perfect for a proud kid.
So there you have it! Our vacation was wonderful and now I'm still just trying to get laundry, groceries and life back under control. It's amazing how that just takes a few days after a good vacation.

favorite saint patty's joke...

A man was late to a meeting and couldn't find a parking spot. In his panic he prayed (in your best Irish accent),

"Lord, please, provide for me a parking spot and I promise you I will give up my Irish Whiskey and will go to Mass faithfully. Please Lord, help a lad."

And sure enough, as he rounded the next row, a car was backing out, right by the front door.

"Oh. Never mind, Lord, a spot just opened up."

twenty-nine.


That's me, today. Twenty-nine years old. And I'm excited about it. It seems eerily close to thirty, but I think I'm okay with thirty too, so I'm not going to freak out about its younger year, twenty-nine.

Rory and I are flying to San Francisco today to spend the weekend with our friends John and Shannon. John and Rory are both business owners, and speak their own language when they are together. Shannon and I both are seminary grads, and could talk or not talk for hours. (can anyone name that line? it's an all-time favorite movie quote of mine...) We're so excited to reconnect with these friends.

Mom, thanks for pushing so hard twenty nine years ago today. Mom and Dad, thanks for raising me in such a happy, healthy home and for living your lives and faith so fully and creatively. Mat and Annika, thanks for being my big brother and big sister. I love being the baby in the family. Rory, thanks for being the best thing that happened to me during my twenty-forth year of life.

Life is good, and I am happy. This is a happy, happy birthday.

the surprise tuxedo

My uncle Mark came to my wedding in a tuxedo. It wasn't a black tie event, but Uncle Mark saw a great opportunity to get to wear his tux and I found it pretty funny. He also wore his tuxedo to my sister's masters graduation ceremony.

On Sunday I called Uncle Mark and Aunt Jane and he told me that last Tuesday he got in the car and drove from St. Louis to Dysart, Iowa to celebrate my Great Aunt Stella's 92nd Birthday. (This is the same Great Aunt Stella I wrote about on Valentine's day.)

He arrived as a surprise to his aunt's house, and of course was wearing his tuxedo. After a while Stella's other nephew Jerry showed up with Stella's 93 year old brother-in-law. And then the four of them went to the nearby town for fried chicken at the bowling alley.

I am envisioning these four, Mark in his Tux, along with Jerry helping these two 90-somethings who rarely get out of their own homes, sharing a meal of greasy chicken in a hazy bowling alley. And somehow it completely works. Uncle Mark said the bowling alley attendant asked him if he was the entertainment for the celebration.

I called Aunt Stella after talking to Uncle Mark and she told me, in great detail, all about this most wonderful birthday party. She added that she was so pleased because she had wanted to turn in her income taxes in person, and her accountant was right next to the bowling alley. It was hard to figure out if she was more happy about hand-delivering her taxes or the fried chicken.

At any rate, she felt celebrated and I began to think more events need to be celebrated with a surprise tuxedo.